YOU ARE LOVABLE!

Greetings beautiful beings ,

“I pay no attention to anybody’s praise or blame. I simply follow my own feelings” Wolfgang Amadeus Mozart

Let us  come to a place where you are just absolutely loveable to yourself and whatever somebody else thinks or feels about you does  not matter. When you realize your true nature and that true nature is pure love, then everything else should not matter right?There are two responses in our lives and they are very clear cut.

According to one of Deepak Chopra’s books, there is something called the “self –referral” and the other “object referral”. This concept is originally from the Bhagwat Gita.
Self referral is when everything you do and everything you are being is in reference to the spirit or the unconditional love within you. When you love yourself unconditionally then whatever experience is presented to you, you can deal with it from the absolute platform of love. This is when what other people think of you, will not make a difference to your state of mind.
Object referral is the exact opposite of self referral. When everything you do or say or "be" is in reference to what others think of you. This is a very stressful way to live. Imagine living with a thousand eyes watching you and waiting for you to make the next mistake! Pretty scary place to be in...right?  

You are not alone in this and there is help. First let us recognize what we are doing to ourselves.
Self love and self referral brings the focus on being one with the source...instead of comparing yourself to someone else you are focusing on connecting with the Universe and co-creating with the divine energy or God. When you have the infinite source on your side, anything opposing it will have little or no consequence.
Self referral is:
1.      Impervious to criticism.
2.      Unafraid of challenges.
3.      Feels above or beneath no one.
4.      Makes choices out of love.
Object referral is:
1.      Wants approval.
2.      Wants control.
3.      Lives in fear.
4.      Makes choices out of fear.

Here are a few steps to activate the self referral energy:
1. Look within you and find that part of you that loves you unconditionally (believe me, it is there :).
2. After you find that part...energize/activate it by believing in it.
3. All day long, keep sending love to yourself and expanding your heart.
End of the day all you will feel is LOVE... (Not a bad place to be huh?) .
I am sending you lots of love and self referral goodness, because that is the ONLY way to live and you have a choice.
In case, you did not catch me on the live radio program produced by the lovely and talented "Corporate to creative" Coach Kelly Galea, 

Here is the link  to the radio program http://www.blogtalkradio.com/corporatetocreative/2012/11/28/how-to-overcome-fear-by-making-an-easy-shift-in-perception
We explore:
·        What FEAR is.
·        What your life would be if fear was not an excuse to your success.
·        Why fear plays such a powerful role in our lives.
·        3 easy basic steps to overcome fear. You can use these anytime, anywhere!

As always I am here for you…..Thank you for evolving in this journey with me. Be blessed, be connected, be you..........

 Adwiti Subba Haffner

 I teach women and anyone else (also via Skype sessions) to make that internal leap from where you are to where you want to be in the external world from achieving your most audacious dreams to finding profound success , fulfillment and inner peace.
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