THE CLEANSE...

Greetings Wonderful mothers and all who read my blogs,

There were many thoughts coursing through many channels of my brain, as I was waiting for my daughter in the car line to pick her up after school! I was a little early and I was checking my emails and phone messages. 

Different voices  reminded me of all the work that had to be done, or if it had been done in a timely fashion. My website needed attention, my little dog Momo needed a bath..what were we fixing for dinner…. hoped that there was the salad in the fridge ( sent a text to my husband to ask him to check), did I remember to order the video of my daughter’s recital…when all of a sudden a flash of lightening illuminated the area and the dark nimbus clouds broke loose and down came the rain….

                           

Now, if you have been reading my blogs, I guess you already know that I love the rain.

The rhythm, the cleansing, the release all happens in one synchronized event..it is cathartic!

The rain washed away all of my thoughts, cleansed it and brought me back to this powerful moment –NOW!

We all need a little rain sometimes, to connect to the power of cleansing, we all need that once in a while, to wash away our concerns and as it rejuvenates us and gives our souls a dynamic bath!

                       

Rain is metaphorical, it has the ability to purify and cleanse our entire being, it also has the ability help us rest and rejuvenate. Rain is also an act of creativity, resourcefulness and restoration. Rain helps with the cooling down process in the earth. Rain provides water, something that we just cannot live without.

Ask yourselves today:

1.   What do I need to cleanse from my life today? What do I need to wash away?

2.   Where do I need to cool down, where am I doing too much that I need to rest?

3.   What significant thing, feeling, emotion, purpose are you needing in your life right now that you just cannot do without but have been really putting it off, by placing other things, people before you.

Let me know, more so let yourself know this truth. Dig deep..and yes Cleanse. I am here for you as always.

I will be starting a inner circle group within my website for a nominal price in a few weeks, so I can help you liberate yourself from the old disempowering ways and realize your greater potential as a mother/woman. I will help you connect to the energy of the mother, the energy of the female who is so powerful and magnificent and yes completely within you!

                        

adwitiempowers@gmail.com

My name is Adwiti Subba Haffner and I am a Life Coach. I teach moms and anyone else (also via Skype sessions) to make that internal leap from where you are to where you want to be in the external world from achieving your most audacious dreams to finding profound success , fulfillment and inner peace. Check out my testimonials and invest in yourself and let us make that leap forward!!


 http://www.alivewithadwiti.com/estimonials

www.empowerthemother.com

adwitiempowers@gmail.com

251-609-1251

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Photography  © Neema Doma

WORDS OF LOVE..

Greeting Mothers and all the wonderful people who read my blog,

I know a lot of you have been enjoying my blogs so I want to make a request. I would like  you to please  take a look on the right side bar and  click on " join this site" , so you don't have to wait for me to post it on FB, or twitter and other social media! Also, from the emails and comments I receive I believe these blogs are very helpful to you, so please spread the word to your friends and family. this would be of great help to me. Thank you and Namaste~.

Memorial day weekend has been relaxing, besides going to the beach, I actually did a lot of feng shui around my house, just letting go of old stuff and creating room for new. While we cleaned and sorted,my daughter watched the “Avatar” series once again and although I am not an advocate for mindless TV watching, this series is actually quite thought provoking and has tapped into some profound Eastern philosophy, which I hope she will inculcate in her magnificent childhood and thereafter.

We were out on the beach yesterday, the mesmerizing turquoise water completely entranced my spirit, the sugar white sand felt like velvet on my feet. My husband put up the umbrellas and we started building sand castles and played in the water, we were also entertained by a pod of dolphins that swam pretty close to the shore. I am not sure what it is but every time I see  that sight I feel like my spirit uplift to a very peaceful place!

                        

But, I was jerked out of my wondrous stupor by an acute, angry interaction between a husband and wife with a family stationed next to us. They had three kids and the husband was playing with one of them in the water, I happened to be getting out to dry off. He asked me to get his wife for him as she could not hear him calling her because of the sound of the waves.

Drying my hair and enjoying the sultry air, I relayed the message to his wife, who turned visibly red with anger! Then with her hands on her hips, she started shouting at the top of her lungs, turning toward the husband playing in the water with the kid “What…what..what..what the hell do you want from me?”

I retreated to my spot, sent her some light and witnessed that interaction The children started wincing and unpleasantness spilled into the atmosphere within them.

Now, I am not trying the “holier than thou” stance at all here. I am just reminded of the times that I may not have spoken so sweetly to my husband  and of course when looking from the outside, I cannot know what the dynamics of  that family were and what triggers they had, I was only just given a glimpse .

But I thought it would be a great reminder to my readers to speak sweetly to your loved ones!  The daily grind can make us pressurized and we become unaware of our treatment towards the ones closest to us, as we know they will forgive us. But imagine what the relationship goes through, it is a matter of choice as to how you want to construct this connection through the years. Do you want to build it with words of love in your heart and in your mouth or with words of frustration and anger and let it build walls between the relationship? 

The family relationship has to endure a lot so weave it with love and let the love not just be in your hearts, but in words and in action.

No matter how angry or activated you might be, always be aware of the fruit of the interaction. Becoming conscious of the end result of a heated communication has helped me grow from "attack mode" to “ we are in this together”! 

Until tomorrow mothers and everyone reading this blog all over the world, speak words of love to your loved ones and to yourself. Your heart will feel infinitely better.

                      

I will be starting a inner circle group within my website for a nominal price in a few weeks, so I can help you liberate yourself from the old disempowering ways and realize your greater potential as a mother/woman. I will help you connect to the energy of the mother, the energy of the female who is so powerful and magnificent and yes completely within you!


 adwitiempowers@gmail.com

My name is Adwiti Subba Haffner and I am a Life Coach. I teach moms and anyone else (also via Skype sessions) to make that internal leap from where you are to where you want to be in the external world from achieving your most audacious dreams to finding profound success , fulfillment and inner peace. Check out my testimonials and invest in yourself and let us make that leap forward!!

 http://www.alivewithadwiti.com/estimonials

www.empowerthemother.com

adwitiempowers@gmail.com

251-609-1251

P.S. sign up for my blog/follow me or go to my website to get a free abundance e-course. Lots of good feedback on that one! ENJOY!


©alivewithadwiti LLC

THE DARE ....

Greetings beautiful Mothers,

Today I am jumpstarting with one of my favorite quotes..

“ That the moment one definitely commits oneself, then Providence moves too. All sorts of things occur to help one that would never otherwise have occurred. A whole stream of events issues from the decision, raising in one's favor all manner of unforeseen incidents and meetings and material assistance, which no man could have dreamed would have come his way. Whatever you can do, or dream you can do, begin it. Boldness has genius, power, and magic in it. Begin it now.”

I have revealed to you about commitments more times than I can remember. 

Today  I dare you to do three things this week:

1.   Dare to do something that you have always wanted to do and never could.

2.   The only way to overcome fear is ACTION! Write down one fear that is holding you back from making that jump to the other side of who you really long to be.

3.   Thirdly “Nike” it! JUST DO IT! Mothers, even if it is a small act, make it a symbol of your infinite possibilities waiting for you to make it a reality. It is all there, what you desire, you have to start by taking that baby step towards it.

Please let me know via e-mail or via comments what progress you have made this week. adwitiempowers@gmail.com

I will be starting a inner circle group within my website for a nominal price in a few weeks, so I can help you liberate yourself from the old disempowering ways and realize your greater potential as a mother. I will help you connect to the energy of the mother who is so powerful and magnificent and yes completely within you!

My name is Adwiti Subba Haffner and I am a Life Coach. I teach moms and anyone else (also via Skype sessions) to make that internal leap from where you are to where you want to be in the external world from achieving your most audacious dreams to finding profound success , fulfillment and inner peace. Check out my testimonials and invest in yourself and let us make that leap forward!!

 

 http://www.alivewithadwiti.com/estimonials

www.empowerthemother.com

adwitiempowers@gmail.com

251-609-1251

P.S. sign up for my blog/follow me or go to my website to get a free abundance e-course. Lots of good feedback on that one! ENJOY!


©alivewithadwiti LLC

BECOME EMPTY...

Greetings Mothers,

Aahhhhhhhhhhh key board!....I feel extraordinarily privileged! 

I just got my computer from the repair shop, although all data was not lost, they had to reinstall windows so much has to be done to this PC before it gets back to its optimum running format.

I will keep it simple and short today. Since I just got back my computer I have a lot of pending work to finish, but the message was relayed to me quite clearly, it was time for a renewal.

A story comes to mind.  High up in the mountains, across the valley of beautiful lavender flowers a river ran through a beautiful monastery, where a great Zen master resided. He was known for his simplicity and his honesty in dealing with his students.His whole life was a series of active meditations. He swept the floor, he cooked his meal, he watered his plants, he split the wood and everything he did, there was a deep sense of living in the moment and being one with it.

                        

A very educated scholar from the city heard of this Zen master and decided to pay him a visit. The scholar had every intention to learn from the master although he deemed himself extremely educated and knowledgeable.  

The scholar was received by the Zen master with great respect, he was asked to sit and have a cup of tea . The scholar accepted the invitation but started demonstrating his vast knowledge and bragged about his academic achievements to the Zen master. The scholar kept on and on about how much he already knew and asked the master what he could teach him.

The student brought in the tea,the cup was handed over to the scholar and the Master poured the tea, he kept pouring it even though it was overflowing past the saucer and trickled down the floor. The scholar was confused and asked him what he was doing.

The master replied “ When the cup is full, then no more tea can be poured in any more, it will overflow. It is when the cup is empty that I can fill it with more tea.”

The scholar bowed his head and became his disciple for as long as he lived.

Mothers, empty your cup so the Universe can fill it with love, goodness, wisdom and knowledge. Stubbornness is a sure sign of a full cup!

Become empty so you can be full-filled.

Have a fabulous Memorial weekend and know that I am here for you, guiding you, helping you and supporting you through all your trying, wonderful and amazing journeys.

My name is Adwiti Subba Haffner and I am a Life Coach. I teach moms and anyone else (also via Skype sessions) to make that internal leap from where you are to where you want to be in the external world from achieving your most audacious dreams to finding profound success , fulfillment and inner peace. Check out my testimonials and invest in yourself and let us make that leap forward!!

                               

http://www.alivewithadwiti.com/estimonials

www.empowerthemother.com

adwitiempowers@gmail.com

251-609-1251

P.S. sign up for my blog/follow me or go to my website to get a free abundance e-course. Lots of good feedback on that one! ENJOY!


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DIVINE GUIDANCE

Greetings Mothers,

Day 3 and my computer is still in the repair shop! I am holding my commitment and still writing my blog with my smart phone!

Thank you for your patience!

Attuning to divine guidance is a very powerful feeling and requires an amazing amount of surrendering and trusting the unknown.

When we listen with heart centeredness to the guidance we have told that all will be beautiful and synchronize, but when it comes to recognizing this guidance it gets to be confusing.

What are you supposed to listen to? Is it your feelings? Is it your emotions? Is it your fear? Is it your voice of logic? We have so many voices that it is really confusing as to which is the divine one!

This requires absolute faith and an open mind and a strong engagement in the process of asking and then listening , receiving and accepting!

This also requires a great deal of stepping away from the EGO,maybe in the form of our own opinion or how we want our lives to look like in our terms verses the terms in collaboration with the Universe.

While praying is actively talking to God/Universe, meditation is listening and silencing and opening to the infinite possibilities of life and living. So meditation is a big part of learning to be guided by the great Divine.

When you are guided, it is very much like a flowing river, magnetically pulled by the Ocean, no real struggles and if there are struggles then it is a natural process of growth or movement for a greater good, but the flow is never forced or contrived.

When you are in engaged with the guidance you surrender to the beauty of life instead of opposing to the idea of what you think is beautiful in life.

I am surrendering to the beauty of enjoying helping my clients reach their true potential, watching my daughter shine in her recital, accept the enormous beauty of the Ocean crashing on my feet, letting the breeze caress my face and listening to the deep guidance of the Divine.

Until tomorrow mothers, I am as usual here to help you find the greatness within your heart!

My email address is alive@alivewithadwiti.com My website is www.alivewithadwiti.com and my phone number is 1-251-6091251 I have enjoyed writing this blog today and appreciating my little smart phone all you guys reading this, infinite blessings to you and your whole family! Namaste*

GRATITUDE

Greetings Mothers, Both my computers are ailing so today I am honoring my writing commitment again this time with my IPOD. Seems like it is easier than yesterday. Today I am going to touch on gratitude. For sure, the laptop and my pc was totally taken for granted. It is not until you are threatened with the loss of something or whenyou outright lose it will one really start to value it. This applies for everything in your life. The flip side of this is that I am enjoying not having electronics at my fingertips. Are we dependent on it ? I seriously doubt it but do we want to be? The answer is YES! I am seriously appreciating the down time, reading and meditating and also actually talking on the phone with my friends as opposed to simply sending impersonal messages on FB or some social media. It is definitely reminiscent of those old times I guess! Not that I don't move on with the times, believe me I do. I wish to emphasize the gratitude and the appreciation factor in your life. I could me utterly fitting over my situation right now but really I have chosen to feel the gratitude of the space and time I am getting despite all odds. Gratitude is such a powerful agreement with self that it instantly moves you from a state of lacking and needing to a lush state of having and receiving. I want you to contemplate on gratitude. What are five things you feel grateful about? And then write it down. I am here if you need me. My phone number is 2516091251, my website is www.alivewithadwiti.com or email me at adwitiempowers@gmail.com I help mothers and others make that leap from where they are to where they want to be. Until tomorrow enjoy a grateful day......

COMMITMENT

Greetings Mothers,
Today has been a day filled with challenges! My faithful PC decided to take  a hiatus and my laptop acting like wants to follow suit. My commitment to writing  a blog a day still holds me has me writing today with my Blackberry!

Talking about commitment, it is something that you decide t do with your heart that no matter  what you mke it happen!

I had appointments all day, and right now I am at my daughter's rehearsal for tomorrow's recital. I am writing  uring breaks!

When you decide you will not let any impediments come in bin between your decision! I am amazed at how I am ble to atually write with my blackberry!

The four year olds are dancing to "Sing, sing
 a song, sing out loud" and they look adorable!

Have you ever made that leap, that jump, that decision herethat there is no looking back?

Today moms, what do you want to make that decision on? What needs immediacy,  a habit you want to break or dissolve, or a brand new habit you want to formthata goal you have been waiting to acheive. Today, feel the strength of the decision weaving into your heart, feel the resolution becoming more and more stronger within your being.

Today, don't wait for the perfect time ,

ARE YOU YOUR TRUE SELF?

What is true me? Is it the positive me or the negative me or simply the perfect balanced between the two me's ? 

This is another question posed when my blog read “  Release the need to be you-created by the EGO-invite and embrace the truest form of you. This seems to be a simple statement, please take some time to ponder over the “true” you!”

I will definitely have to quote some great poets, writers, philosophers and most importantly great spiritual masters here to elucidate the “true me”.

                            

“Your work is to discover your world and then with all your heart give yourself to it.” –Buddha

“Your vision will become clear only when you can look into your own heart. Who looks outside, dreams; who looks inside, awakes.” – Carl Jung

“Retire to the center of your being, which is calmness.” ― Paramahansa Yogananda

“Knowing yourself is the beginning of all wisdom.” – Aristotle

                          

Each of us is here to discover our true Self… that essentially we are spiritual beings who have taken manifestation in physical form… that we're not human beings that have occasional spiritual experiences… that we're spiritual beings that have occasional human experiences.”- Deepak Chopra

"Blessed are the pure in heart, for they shall see God.” Jesus

                        

From my own opinion the true self is the one not touched by the EGO.

1.   True self is beyond thought, which is beyond ego.

2.   The true self is the infinite being that you can feel when you meditate.

3.   The true self is at peace with all things in the Universe knowing that we are all one, not more or less.

4.   The true self is unconditional love. This basically means love which is absolute, not reactionary. Reactionary love is affected by cause and effect, but true love is simply there, eternally infinite and unbounded.

5.   Quite simply put, if you can separate your ego from self, you find your true self.

        

I know the next question perhaps will be how can I separate my true self from my ego..I hope to tackle that in the next blog time permitting.

To all my readers hope all my blogs are fun and entertaining, I am hoping to do some podcasts, hope you will participate in that as well. 

My name is Adwiti Subba Haffner and I am a Life Coach. I teach moms and anyone else (also via Skype sessions) to make that internal  leap from where you are to where you want to be in the external world from achieving your most audacious dreams to finding  profound success , fulfillment and inner peace. Check out my testimonials and invest in yourself and let us make that leap forward!!

http://www.alivewithadwiti.com/estimonials

 www.empowerthemother.com

adwitiempowers@gmail.com

251-609-1251

P.S. sign up for my blog/follow me or go to my website to get a free abundance e-course. Lots of good feedback on that one! ENJOY!


©alivewithadwiti LLC

HOW TO RELEASE NEGATIVE ENERGY..

Greetings beautiful mothers,

I had a question asked by one of the beautiful mothers yesterday.

How does one release darkness / negative thoughts asap? It takes me up to 24 hours or longer to process & digest & finally let go of negative emotions. Is it possible to speed up the process of releasing & if so how?

Firstly, thank you so much for the question as it is extremely valid and also necessary, I have had this same question posed to me several times so I will address it here in my blog,  I am impressed that you can let go within 24 hours, sometimes it takes people lifetimes to be free from it J.

There are many ways to release negativity but I will give you five real steps to work through it!

1.     Becoming aware of the negative energy that is consuming your core peace is really the first step. A lot of times you can see and hear people reeking of negativity, but they have no clue they are immersed in it.

2.     Acceptance is the second step.There are negatives and positives in the world and we have to live with it. To think that only positive thoughts are in a person’s mind is delusional. Being a witness and receiving that feeling with no judgment is instrumental to the release.

  

            

3.     Realize that the ego causes all suffering in your mind. The spirit is eternally at peace and would do nothing to cause you any turmoil.

4.     Ask your spirit for the lesson from this negative experience?  Because you will keep attracting similar occurrences until you learn the lesson and move on from there. It is the Law of attraction at play. You attract what you are, not what you want. A few months ago I attracted a few angry people in my life and of course that depletes a person’s energy and I tried to take care of it, through a deeper level.   

a.     Spiritually sending them peace

b.     Replacing the angry feelings that I felt with light

c.     Imagining the dark energy leaving my body

While all these three things are good , it is better done after the #5 step, it does not really take care of the deeper issue, which is what you are attracting. Once you know the REAL reason behind attracting the negatives you can start healing yourself!

5.     Now that you have been revealed with the genuine reason you can correct the error thought that has been creating that frequency in your life or in particular this moment. It can be lack, it can be anger, it can be general chaos, whatever it is that you are attracting, but when you change that in your heart then the outer world will change. I have lots of clients come to me with these and I will be glad to help you align within so your life can regain the inner peace and balance.


 Now...Go back to a,b, and c.

                      

My name is Adwiti Subba Haffner and I am a Life Coach. I teach moms and anyone else (also via Skype sessions) to make that internal  leap from where you are to where you want to be in the external world from achieving your most audacious dreams to finding  profound success , fulfillment and inner peace. Check out my testimonials and invest in yourself and let us make that leap forward!!

http://www.alivewithadwiti.com/estimonials

 www.empowerthemother.com

adwitiempowers@gmail.com

251-609-1251

P.S. sign up for my blog/follow me or go to my website to get a free abundance e-course. Lots of good feedback on that one! ENJOY!


©alivewithadwiti LLC

RELEASE DARKNESS......

Greetings beautiful Mothers (and everyone else J )

Just a few reminders this Sunday.

1.     Release the need to be you-created by the EGO-invite and embrace the truest form of you. This seems to be a simple statement, please take some time to ponder over the “true” you!

2.     Release the need to be right, instead go from neediness to fulfillment. The needing to be right comes from a feeling of lack in your mind, feeling that you “need” approval for your stand. Moving from approval seeking to collaboration will bring a lot of peace in your heart and in your life. 

3.     Release people in your life that are bringing you down, instead love yourself and hang out with people that uplift you. Even if you have to see the people that are negative - changing your perspective about them in your mind will help you not react to their negativity. I usually see them with compassion and remember that they are doing what they are doing because of where they are in their consciousness.

4.     Release anything unlike peace and step into serenity. It takes that one defining moment , one  decision to say "NO MORE". To choose between chaos and peace...make that choice, it is all in your mind.

5.     Release darkness within and light will find you.

Hi, My name is Adwiti Subba Haffner and I am a Life Coach. I teach moms and anyone else (also via Skype sessions) to make that internal  leap from where you are to where you want to be in the external world from achieving your most audacious dreams to finding  profound success , fulfillment and inner peace. Check out my testimonials and invest in yourself and let us make that leap forward!!

http://www.alivewithadwiti.com/estimonials

 www.empowerthemother.com

adwitiempowers@gmail.com

251-609-1251

P.S. sign up for my blog/follow me or go to my website to get a free abundance e-course. Lots of good feedback on that one! ENJOY!

©alivewithadwiti LLC